Fringe groups can be fun. There, I said it. Alert the media. Fringe groups want mainstream recognition because they’re sick of slaving away at their tedious jobs, if they’re even employed to begin with. So, let’s get down to the basics. How does a fringe group achieve recognition? It’s sort of like this: The fringe group decides they’re going to build and/or recruit a Respectable Rita to make some magic happen. Once Respectable Rita is waving the flag, everyone can move out of badtown. At least that’s the plan.
Respectable Rita is a bitch. Let’s get this out of the way right now. I have no problem admitting this, having served as a Respectable Rita and hired to discover Respectable Ritas for questionable employers. Respectable Rita is a bitch, but the fringe group tolerates her because they want to get out of badtown. They tell Respectable Rita what they think she wants to hear. We like your necklace. Your haircut reminds us of that one celebrity. Game of Thrones? More like Game of You, Rita!
Yet Respectable Rita has her own fringe group. She’s serving as Respectable Rita for your fringe group in order to get her own fringe group off the ground. Social capitalists run wild in this maddening landscape. Everyone in this sphere has a twisted plan. Respectable Rita doesn’t care if you compliment her, but she’ll still pay lip service to your cause.
The fringe group will soon bitch and whine. “Everything was chill until Respectable Rita came along! She doesn’t really understand our movement.” “Just deal with her, bro. Do you want to move out of badtown or not?”
—Someone will sleep with Respectable Rita.
—Someone will get jealous.
—Someone will punch someone else.
—Someone will call the authorities.
—Someone will end up in jail.
Respectable Rita was just another anti-social actor in the end, but you trusted her to make you popular. That was your fault, because you fell for her game. Now you’re a mere statistic, but at least she waved the flag one time at that party. Remember how hot it was when she screamed your agenda?
—Rachel Haywire is the author of The New Art Right, and is currently working on a new memoir about corruption in Silicon Valley.